The good times make me more sad than the bad times. Because I can’t have them now. It has become a memory now. That memory, which I want to cherish forever. But at the same time, these memories make me wonder that it could have been better if I never created them in the first place. Everything was perfect back then and even if it wasn’t perfect I was happy. Infact more than happy. I still crave for that time, I still crave for that happiness. Sometimes I feel like going back so I could feel certain things twice. But that’s gone and I can’t do anything about it. We need to start learning to let go. Because eventually nothing stays the same. Things change, people change. So we need to let go to start something new. But one thing that I want to say is I’m always there, no matter what.
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Just wanted to share an incident with everyone out there. Today, I was in a happy mood. So I was jiggling around my house. Seeing me happy like this, my father surprisingly started dancing along with me. I was so happy because this happens once in a blue moon. And I suddenly realised that if you’re happy, it makes your parents happier. So, I personally insist you guys to just stay home and spend time with your parents as much as you can. You won’t get this chance ever again. Everyone gets busy in their own life and we completely forget how much impact we can create on our parents’ lives. Such incidents make you realise that how much you matter to your parents and how much they matter to you. ❤️ You can spread happiness around you by simply staying happy yourself. So, Stay home💒 Stay happy🤗 Spread happiness😇
Why am I the ony one who’s scared to lose everytime? Why can’t I just be the one who they’re scared of losing? Why am I always trying to portray my best side in order to get that acceptance? Why can’t they just accept me the way I’m? Why are we scared to show our vulnerability? Why do we consider it as a sign of weakness and not kindness? The answers to all these questions are within me. It’s all because of the fear…. The fear of rejection. We’re afraid of rejections. Aren’t we? But why are we afraid? We shouldn’t be afraid right?
Let’s stop worrying about these “Why’s” and start loving ourselves more often.
She isn’t perfect, neither she tries to be. She consider herself dumb not knowing that she’s just innocent. She just live in her ‘lala world’ not knowing about the real world. She’s the girl who cries herself to sleep sometimes and cares a little too much about what people say. She takes every word to heart, every word which people tell her, she believes everything, she feel everything. And she gives her everything to people. Even when she’s in pain, she doesn’t hurt anyone. But now she’s tired, she doesn’t have the heart left to love anymore. She became stubborn just to see who fought for her stubborn heart and her hard love. She is a soft soul of a child wrapped in a cold adult body. She is an old soul in this perfectly perfect world.✨
The day is going to hit you when you realize she’s no longer a choice you get to make. You’ll cross paths and she’ll look and sound familiar but as you look a little more closely you’ll realize how much has changed about her. You’ll realize she looks a little prettier that far away even if she’s close.
It’s going to be then you realize what it is you miss about her.
You’ll find yourself looking at pictures you didn’t want to take in the first place but she insisted you do so. You never knew looking back at those moments and memories would hurt so much. You’ll miss the messages that popped up when she saw something and thought of you. Conversations of just wanting to know how you were doing. How you’d part ways and she’d always say I love you, get home safely with a kiss on the cheek as she took off.
Those moments of missing her will hit you as you realize there aren’t a lot of people like her who genuinally care. And maybe it was annoying sometimes but there wasn’t anyone with better intentions. There isn’t anyone who wouldn’t do anything you ask.
You’ll regret the fact that you never appreciated her or thanked her. You’ll miss someone who never stopped trying with you. It’s the night that you’ll stay awake and you remember when you used to text her and even at odd hours she’d always make the time to talk to you. You’ll miss the person who was always on your side wanting what was best for you. You think back to how much time and emotion she invested into you. Her absence will make you realize how much you must have hurt her. You look at your phone and you want to text her and ask how she is but you can’t even figure out how to say hello.
And it isn’t like you did anything wrong. But you didn’t do anything right either to make her stay.
That’s the thing about good people they stay for as long as they can believe in you. But you can’t keep them waiting forever.
Nothing is permanent in this world. Not even feelings. Sometimes, I wonder how fast and easily people change. A night before, they were dying to be with you, making promises to never leave you but the next day, they make you feel like it was never there, the feelings, the love, the emotions, and everything. You can’t trust anyone these days. Anyone can leave you anytime without any valid reason. Never get too attached to anyone unless and until they feel the same for you because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you. At first they make you feel home and then leave you when they get what they wanted. It hurts when you realise you aren’t as important to someone as you thought you were. It’s so easy for people to hurt anyone because they’ll never realise how much they’ve hurt someone until the same thing has happened to them. They will leave you with no closure.
I just don’t understand how it is so easy for them to just walk away? Did I really mean that little to you? Do you even realise how badly you’ve hurt me? What did I ever do to you to make you hurt me this much? I need you to tell me why you did this to me. Why?
I should hate you for all you’ve done to me. I wouldn’t wish that pain on anybody. You go around living your life as if you’ve done nothing wrong but the truth is you’re selfish. All you ever cared about were your feelings, your wants, your needs. I was just a pawn in your game of lies. And even though I know I’ll never get the apology I deserve, I forgive you because I owe it to myself to heal and I owe it to myself to move on.
She’s not difficult or demanding, she’s simply complicated and she’s been hurt before. No matter what, she’ll always hold you to your best self. The best thing about a partner who’s hard to love is that she’ll give her best to save her relationship. She’s only hard to love because she’s been hurt so many times. So she’ll require a lot from you. She’s slow to trust but her trust is worth it. She doesn’t allow just anyone in, so when she finally grants you access, it means you’re sharing something special with her. She’s complicated but that’s what makes her different. She knows she’s worth a deep love because that’s what she gives in return. She’ll demand what she deserves from you.
So just try to keep her happy and don’t ever make her feel as in she’s no more important to you because being a girl I know how much it hurts when you feel ignored and unwanted by the person you love the most. All she wants is your love and attention. She wants to feel that Yes! I have someone in my life who’s scared to lose me. Just pamper her as much as you can. And never ever fade anything that you did to get her in the beginning. She’s hard to love. She gets angry about stupid things but my dear please don’t give up on her. Be obsessed with her, show her off, check on her constantly and do your best to keep her happy, that’s all she really wants.
You deserve the best, the very best. You’re incredible. You make this world a little bit more wonderful. You’ve so much potential and so many things left to do. You have time. Better things are coming your way. So please hang in there. You can do it. Just believe in yourself a little more and then everything will be great. Don’t settle for less. Everything takes time.
Don’t compromise. You have the right to be happy and get what you deserve. You deserve someone that keeps fighting for you, no matter how hard it gets. Someone that uplifts you daily and shows you a deeper connection than you’ve ever felt before. That type of person that doesn’t try to change you but instead chooses to help you grow. They motivate you to do better, and prove to you how dedicated they are to seeing you succeed. Yes! That’s the kind of love you deserve and will have. Now stop selling yourself short.
You’re gonna meet one great girl in this life and from the moment you meet her, you’ll know that she’s trouble. She’s gonna be weird, she’s gonna have attitude. She’s gonna make you do things you haven’t done.
If a girl wants to talk to you every minute of the day, wants to talk on the phone to hear your voice, wants to smother you with affection, waits for you no matter how long. This means she loves you wholeheartedly and don’t waste a good girl like that.
You’re gonna love her against reason. But somewhere in the middle, she’s gonna get tired of everything. Don’t leave. Because if you do, I promise you, you’re gonna live everyday of your life looking back and regretting why you never took the chance. Just stand by her and don’t give up. Because you know… you knew from the moment you met her… she’s worth it.💯