People change.


Nothing is permanent in this world. Not even feelings. Sometimes, I wonder how fast and easily people change. A night before, they were dying to be with you, making promises to never leave you but the next day, they make you feel like it was never there, the feelings, the love, the emotions, and everything. You can’t trust anyone these days. Anyone can leave you anytime without any valid reason. Never get too attached to anyone unless and until they feel the same for you because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you. At first they make you feel home and then leave you when they get what they wanted. It hurts when you realise you aren’t as important to someone as you thought you were. It’s so easy for people to hurt anyone because they’ll never realise how much they’ve hurt someone until the same thing has happened to them. They will leave you with no closure. 

I just don’t understand how it is so easy for them to just walk away? Did I really mean that little to you? Do you even realise how badly you’ve hurt me? What did I ever do to you to make you hurt me this much? I need you to tell me why you did this to me. Why?

I should hate you for all you’ve done to me. I wouldn’t wish that pain on anybody. You go around living your life as if you’ve done nothing wrong but the truth is you’re selfish. All you ever cared about were your feelings, your wants, your needs. I was just a pawn in your game of lies. And even though I know I’ll never get the apology I deserve, I forgive you because I owe it to myself to heal and I owe it to myself to move on.

Here’s your daily reminder.

  • You deserve to be happy.
  • You aren’t worthless.
  • Smile everyday.
  • Life is tough but so are you.
  • Do it for you and not for them.
  • Expect nothing, appreciate everything.
  • You mean a lot to someone.
  • You are worth more than you think you are.
  • You’ve done something to make someone laugh or smile.
  • You’re good enough.
  • Better things are waiting to happen.
  • You are you and nothing can change that.
  • And there’s no one else you need to be.
  • Love yourself so fiercely that no one dare love you half- heartedly.
  • Just keep breathing 😉

Beautiful is not a size.

Beautiful is not a size, it’s not a shape. Beautiful is something which you can feel within yourself. A lot of people are worried about how they look, specially girls. So let me tell you, you are beautiful (blushing). Yes darling, You are Beautiful

Loving yourself is a journey in itself. Stop beating yourself up. We are all born so beautiful, the greatest tragedy is being convinced we are not. Just because you view beauty in someone else, it doesn’t mean that there is absence of beauty in yourself.

I also have my flaws and not one or two, a hell lot of them. I think it’s great to be flawed. I’m hugely flawed and the best part is that I’m happy with my flaws and you should also be because happiness looks gorgeous on you! 

So just feel free about your size, your shape, colour. Just be grateful for who you are. Stop being unhappy with yourself. You’re perfect. Stop wishing you looked like someone else. Stop hating your body, your face, your personality. Love them, without those things you wouldn’t be you and why would you want to be anyone else? Just Be You.💕